How to get a man to do what a woman needs. How to make your husband fulfill your wishes How to make a man fulfill your wishes

Every woman dreams of gradually controlling a man: directing his energy in the right direction, convincing him to do what she needs. Honestly, a woman learns all these intricacies almost her entire adult life!

Needless to say, women begin to learn the art of manipulating men from childhood: theoretical classes alternate with practical ones, first the father acts as guinea pigs (as a rule, it is from him that the first combat experience and much-needed self-confidence are acquired), then neighbors, classmates, male school teachers, lovers, husband (God himself ordered them to be manipulated), co-workers (including the boss) and other males who fall into the sphere of vital interests.

As mentioned above, the educational process is continuous. Some ladies become real aces in this matter, masters of manipulation.

Giving the last instructions to her daughter before marriage, a loving mother, as a rule, says: “The husband is the head of the family, and the wife is the neck who turns this very head as she pleases.” Managing a man so that he not only doesn’t notice it, but also thinks that he himself controls a woman is a brilliant formula, isn’t it?

Of course, women themselves will never admit this, but if a woman takes on a man, he has practically no chance, like the “Zaporozhets” in a collision with a “KAMAZ”. When a man and a woman argue, the woman is always or almost always right. The man, at best, was wrong, at worst, he behaved like the ultimate scoundrel.

Why is this happening? Because Women have a powerful weapon called public morality. This very public morality is always on the side of women, since they are its creators. Excuse me, another reader will ask, but what about Tolstoy, Chekhov, Dostoevsky, Thomas More, Martin Luther King?

I answer - no way. The above-mentioned comrades hovered somewhere high in the clouds, coming down to earth only occasionally to eat, have sex, drink vodka and drop into the editorial office. They have about the same relationship to the creation of the public morality discussed in this article as the Chukchi had to the construction of the ancient Egyptian pyramids.

Let's return to morality. The first rule is: “A woman is always right,” or, as the French say, “What a woman wants, God wants.” Try to bypass this rule - all the women in the world will immediately stand up to defend public morality.

Therefore, first of all, you should actively use your own moral superiority.

1. You are guilty and must atone for your guilt!

How to control a man

Periodically remind your man of those moments from your life together for which he should be ashamed. For example, about how three years ago he promised to buy you a new blouse, but when he went to the slot machine salon, he lost to smithereens. Meanwhile, the blouses were sold out, but this particular style suited you best...

Now my husband has received his salary. Your task is to find funds to buy new shoes. Remind me about the incident with the blouse. So modestly, unobtrusively. Or something else. For example, how he pestered your girlfriend while you were vacationing in the south. Remorse will do its job.

When you receive the required amount, do not forget to thank. “Thank you, dear, I always knew that you loved me.”

2. You are bad! Become a better person. Oh please...

You can follow the example of Soviet propaganda create images of “bad” and “good” guys and actively use them for your own purposes. Images, not guys.

Here is the husband of your employee Vasya - he regularly gives his wife flowers (his own, not someone else's - he doesn't even look in the direction of strangers!), buys clothes, helps with the housework, fulfills all sorts of small whims (a woman without whims is about the same as a wandering a dog without fleas) and never moans, does not complain that he is tired or cannot do something. In a word, he behaves like an exemplary soldier - or rather, like an ideal man.

But another young man, Petya, the ex-husband of Sveta, who now lives with Vasya, missed the girl. He missed it mediocrely, like some domestic forwards miss scoring chances. And why all? Because he behaved incorrectly. He came home whenever he wanted - freedom, you see, is more important to him.

He denied his wife the most necessary things, including panties worth 15,000 rubles, a diamond necklace, a separate apartment for his mother-in-law and a new fur coat for Sveta in addition to the two he already had. In the end, even such a modest girl as Sveta got tired of putting up with this tyrant and she ran away in her underwear to Misha, that is, to Vasya (Misha is so, it doesn’t count, just an episode from life and nothing more).

Sveta is happy, Vasya is too (just like the characters in Indian cinema!). But Petya drank himself to death, the girls don’t like him, so now he lives like a loner psycho, wears the same socks for weeks, doesn’t shave, doesn’t wash, has no one to have sex with, all he can do is masturbate. In a word, he degraded as a person.

3. If you don’t do as I want, I will cry...

How to control a man

Another simple but terribly effective way: tears. The fact is that, due to certain physiological characteristics, men cannot stand it when a woman cries. Even people like Bluebeard, a famous maniac and pervert of all times. A man is not able to endure such discomfort for a long time, so he will do everything possible to ensure that the flow of tears stops.

A dad trots to the store and buys the required toy for his daughter, a guy who has slept with a girl a couple of times takes her hand and, with the determination of a death row prisoner, pulls her to the registry office to submit an application, the husband reaches into his stash, the boss tears the dismissal order to shreds. and another one signs about the bonus.

The lover packs up his things and finally moves in with her (and so that his current wife, using the same technique, does not seize the initiative, she does this during the lunch break, while the unsuspecting wife plays solitaire on the computer and flirts with the boss).

4. Do you want sex? It still needs to be earned!

In addition to public morality, a woman has another powerful weapon in her arsenal. The basic Instinct. More than anything else, men think about that thing that is located between their legs. And, I must say, this apparatus largely determines their behavior.

By the way, not only old Freud thought so. (It’s just that there was no sex in the USSR, and in order to become a man, you had to not sleep with a woman, but serve in the army. Well, what about girls? And girls - later.) For the opportunity to have sex with the lady he’s interested in (optional a friend - by the way, sometimes it’s even more interesting with a stranger), a man is ready for a lot. Which, of course, is what he gets caught doing.

Often a guy understands that he is simply being used - maybe there won’t even be sex - but with manic persistence he steps on the same rake. Physiology again! You can't go against nature. We men are not inclined to appreciate what comes into our hands. If a girl is too accessible, she is enough for one - at most several - times, after which she is no longer interesting.

It’s a different matter if in order to To achieve women's favor, you have to work hard. And then the woman begins to play her game. In an effort to win the lady's heart, as well as gain access to some other organs, the man fulfills all or almost all of her whims. She feeds, drinks, dresses, entertains, depending on her financial capabilities and her needs.

Sometimes the courtship process lasts for years, and its participants are no closer to their cherished goal - bed.“I am strong, I will achieve my goal!” - he encourages himself. What about her? Having held out for a year or two, she may not give it to him purely out of sporting interest and build herself into an impregnable fortress. (And at the same time sleeping with another guy, as they say, is for your health.)

Interestingly, a man who is ready for anything, who has fallen into complete emotional dependence on a woman, is no longer interesting to her, - like a toy that has been dismantled for parts. Another thing is a guy who “doesn’t get along.” At this point the woman herself will try to screw him over.

By the way, there are also good manipulators among men. Such women are called scoundrels and other abusive words. However, these are extremes and exceptions to the rules. Basically, the woman periodically gives the man the green light so that she knows what she is fighting for, and he fulfills some of her demands.

5. You can do anything!

How to control a man

In addition to the basic instinct, men have another vulnerable spot, and its name is male vanity. Men are very dependent on the opinions of others. Some even think only about the impression they make. Women understood this and began to actively use it to their advantage.

Asking a man to do anything, from fixing an iron to European-quality repairs, while adding that no one will do it best, means making him an offer that is difficult to refuse. A if you hint at possible sex, then he will work with the enthusiasm of Alexei Stakhanov, who is going for a record.

Another option is to hold a kind of tender. Like, there is a certain young man who is able to do what I need quickly and efficiently, I think he can ask him? (If there is no such guy, then again, you can invent him.) Remember how Tom Sawyer painted the fence? Why are girls worse?

6. You promised!.. Will you really not keep your word?

By the way, about vanity. A great way to get something from a man is to make him promise. The fact is that all serious guys deliver on what they promise. Regardless of where these serious guys live, driving around in Maybachs or sitting in prison. “The boy said it, the boy did it!” (As opposed to “radishes”, throwing words to the wind like husks from seeds). But for some reason no one wants to be a radish.

Need to say, the above methods are much more effective when used in combination and in the presence of sexual interest. Who do you think a man will be more willing to console - a sobbing old woman or a crying young beauty?

In addition, some of them are emotionally stressful, and therefore need dosed use. It’s one thing to shed tears about once every two to three weeks, and quite another to do this every day and every time threaten to go to your mother. One wonderful day you can hear “Well, go, I got it.”

And you can’t keep a man on a short leash all the time. The carrot and stick method, invented back in the days of the pharaohs, works much better than the “no carrots - just stick” method.

Vlad KLIMUSHINSKY

All men love to emerge victorious from an argument. It is incredibly important to them who has the last word. Be wiser. That's why do not try to argue with him, especially in public, showing your intelligence and erudition: this can be very hurtful. Argue only in private and only on important issues: fuss over little things kills a lot of energy and time.

Men are like children. They love praise. Criticism of their actions and interests is meaningless. You need to make sure that your lover decides to change something about himself. I considered this decision to be my merit.

How to turn a man into a sorcerer who will gladly fulfill a woman’s wishes?

Did you know that only our own desires govern actions in all areas of life, including relationships between a man and a woman? By nature, a woman is created as a more delicate creature than a man and needs more comfort. When she comes into a man's world, she brings with her the need for a more comfortable life.

A single man can be content with ascetic living conditions without noticing any inconvenience. It was the female “I want” that at one time moved humanity from caves to acceptable housing. Then the woman had to take on the function of head of the family. Accordingly, the man in this situation has lost the motive to take care of you, protect you and fulfill your desires, if you yourself are doing an excellent job.

But even if you are a wealthy businesswoman and can earn for all your whims, the spiritual care of your beloved man will fill your life with warmth, make it easier, and provide the opportunity to feel like a full-fledged woman, which is important for self-esteem. How can we restore the primary harmony of masculine and feminine principles?

Help him become a hero

There are two extremes here: you either begin to want everything at once, or you want absolutely nothing, justifying the current situation by cramped life circumstances. The result in both of these cases is not long in coming: if you want too much, a man will feel that you are simply using him.

If you are ready to be content with the most unpretentious things, and drink water with crackers as food for breakfast, lunch and dinner, he will quickly feel bored. At the first appearance of other women's eyes, he will run away from the prude. At the same time, he will feel a surge of energy due to the need to pamper his new acquaintance and will receive her admiring glance in response.

Despite the fact that both of these situations are completely opposite, the consequences are the same: the man ultimately goes to a place where he can be a hero and a winner. It is extremely important for him to understand that he is a real man and “can do anything”! If he is unable to fulfill a woman’s desire, he will feel like a complete failure and will go looking for someone whose desires he can fulfill.

Take a blank sheet of paper, retire to an empty room, turn on some pleasant music. On a sheet of paper, write down 20 of your wishes, the fulfillment of which you can count on with the participation of your man. From the list, select one simple wish. Hide the rest until the first one is completed. Think through your arguments. Try to tell the man what you want, excluding plaintive intonations and demanding notes. Motivate by the fact that this desire will help change your life for the better and more pleasant. Maintain consistency.

A real woman is distinguished by wisdom and understands all the responsibility for incorrectly presenting her desires. You can’t drive a man into a dead end, try to remain consistent. If you are given one thing today and something completely different tomorrow, then you are stopping any attempts to develop relationships. You must foresee the prospects for the development of relations five years in advance. Men do not have such abilities to build relationships. This means that wherever you lead him, he will follow you.

Describe with emotion the most ordinary day in your couple five years from now. What will it be like? Carefully think through the details, start with good morning wishes and end with a fantasy about evening sex.

You are the best!

Only a wise woman, satisfied with herself and her own life, is able to fully realize the potential of her man. Any attempt at self-humiliation will do much more harm than the likely benefit. Let's say something is broken or spoiled. A woman who is accustomed to a state of lack of money and who strives to save on everything simply becomes despondent. With tears, a plaintive intonation, and an uncertain voice, she offers the man to buy a new thing.

A man becomes infected with a state of despair; he feels that he is unable to satisfy his woman’s desire and bring her joy. He “capitulates” at the first opportunity. If a woman expresses her desire kindly, with joy, the man seems to be filled with positive energy. He feels that he is a hero, that he is capable of new exploits and achievements for her sake.

You definitely need to tell a man words for inspiration: “You are the best! You are no stronger! You're so smart! I'm proud of you! I'm behind you - like behind a mountain! You are so lucky! You are my hero!.."

Everything can be even better

Don't forget to thank them for what they did for you. The state of family harmony is determined by the perception of a man as if he were a wizard or a hero who is capable of performing feats in honor of the lady of his heart. Ideally, a woman does not question his masculine abilities. Her primary goal and task is to draw the desired picture. While a man, inspired by a woman’s “you’re great!”, must obtain the means to implement it.

Surprisingly, a man becomes attached for a long time to the woman who keeps him constantly in suspense. We are not talking about hysterics or tears here. And about the woman’s sincere sending of signals: “Everything is wonderful, but it can be even better. You’re just great!”

The weak point of most requests is the delicacy of the wording. Although women think that this is a manifestation of cunning: to say “I’d like some tea now” instead of “put on the kettle.” However, an intelligent man, having heard this, immediately pretends with sadistic pleasure that he does not understand the hints. “It’s probably good in Bali now.” - “I don’t know, now I’ll look at the weather on Yandex.” Yes, it’s plus 26.” Pause. “Honey, do you know where we have the curling iron?” - "I know. On the bathroom cabinet where you just came from.” Pause, we continue to sit. “Could you peel the potatoes?” - “Well, yes, I did this in the army, however, 15 years have passed since then.” Pause, we look blank.

How to recognize: a man usually resorts to “idiocy” in a moment of enthusiasm and laziness. In fact, it’s easy for us to go to the bathroom for tongs if we see that our beloved has already settled down on the sofa and put pedicure spacers on her toes. But if at the moment of the hint request a man is passionate about something truly important, for example, completing the third lap of the Rainbow Road track in Mario Kart, then it’s easier for him to play the fool. For what? So that you ask again, raise your tone, change the wording - in general, show aggression. And in the end I felt guilty for it.

How to fight: Always formulate your requests clearly. The winner here is the one who first makes his partner look like a villain. If you directly said “put the kettle on” or “I want to go to Bali”, and the man balked, that means he is a villain. That's what was required.

Skillful bidding

An almost honest tool of sabotage. Do you want to watch Cruel Intentions on the brand new plasma? “Okay, but tomorrow I'm bringing my friends to see Die Hard, and you make us sandwiches. Dressed as a maid." If the counter-offer is unbalanced (and this is the point of bidding - offering obviously absurd alternatives), the woman may back down. But most often we just hope for a compromise: no friends, we make sandwiches together, but then we watch “Nut.”

How to recognize: any counter-offer is a sign that your request will not be fulfilled. In this sense, not only the words “let’s do it better” are dangerous, but also “let’s do it first.” For example: “Let’s have sex first, and then I’ll give you a massage.” Usually “with the beginning” everything ends.

How to fight: The disadvantage of trading is that the man still has to do what he himself offers as an alternative. Therefore, if he is stubborn and doesn’t want to watch your movie or go out in the rain to get the toilet paper you need to make Chinese soup, then perhaps there is no need to put pressure. It’s much smarter to bargain for something no less valuable, raising the stakes and extracting more and more concessions from the man. “Let my friends come, but I will be in a flight attendant costume. And not only are we watching Cruel Intentions, but you’re also fixing the sconce next to the mirror so I can put on makeup in the evening!”

Overdoing it

The point of the technique is to bury the request under an avalanche of violent activity. “Should I invite my mother to visit? Yes exactly! But let me repaint the room first, she’ll be surprised. I was going to anyway. Do you already know what you will cook?.. Let’s buy scallops and make the salad that we ate at that restaurant, now I’ll find out what it’s called...” Any means of complicating the plan are used - and in the end the weekend comes, and in In your apartment, in buckets of red paint, there are carcasses of unfrozen squid floating, which - ah-ah-ah - he bought by mistake instead of scallops.

How to recognize: firstly, your request is met with agreement and even enthusiasm. This is suspicious. Secondly, a man usually starts hectic activity when your request has an hour: the beginning of a vacation, a holiday. We love to reach the critical point and then say: I really wanted everything to be perfect, but alas! “Since it didn’t work out with mom, don’t waste your days off...” the man will say and suggest going bowling. Fortunately, he told his friends a week ago to keep you in mind.

How to fight: To dismiss any improvements, no matter how wonderful they may look. It is joyful to clap your hands when you hear agreement. This, by the way, never hurts: as you know, we are thrilled by sudden gratitude.

Empty promise

The favorite trick of men is simple to the point of stupidity and strangely effective: “I tried, it didn’t work,” “I called and found out if we had any vacancies for you. Bad news...” Of course, the man doesn’t even try, doesn’t call anywhere, but simply reports a negative result.

How to recognize: no way. Here you need to know with what beak expression your man is lying. Or analyze indirect signs, for example, the time that has passed since the request. Is it true that he managed to arrange for you to get your license without exams, if since you mentioned it, he’s only been out to the toilet?..

How to fight: again, nothing, and this is the genius of the technique! Is it possible, after every phrase you hear, “I tried, but it didn’t work,” to say: “Let me try too.” Like, we don't lose anything.

Imaginary concern

Of course, he would go to the kitchen for coffee, but look at yourself: your eye is already twitching, the skin on your forehead is dry, and do you know what kind of diuretic coffee is? And he would gladly buy you this underwear, but look how thick the elastic is, it will cut into the skin, and you have a mole in this place! then care. But don’t flatter yourself, their main purpose is a veiled refusal.

How to recognize: Usually a man, resorting to this trick, begins to barricade affectionate addresses. If until now he only called you “darling” when he crushed your kitten with his toy railroad, and during a shopping trip he said this word three times - there is a chance that he just wants to sweeten the pill. But in general, isn’t caring, even selfishly, more valuable than some linen?..

How to fight: no, not more valuable? Then the only thing is to find counter-arguments, relying on experience inaccessible to a man. “Well, yes, if you drink coffee, it dries it out, but I wanted to make a compress for the eyes - you know how it helps with tics! Go, okay?” Since a man knows the absurdity of the arguments he is putting forward, the words “you got everything mixed up” and “in fact, everything is the other way around”, as a rule, disarms him.

Involving you

Now you’ve been walking around the construction market for the second hour, where a treacherous man sent you. “Update the bathroom? Yes, great, I wanted to suggest this myself! Go to the market quickly and choose a tile, I still don’t understand anything about it. In the meantime, I’ll take on all the hard stuff and measure the pipes and wiring.” The point of involvement is not necessarily to dump the dirty part of the work on you, although this, of course, is aerobatics. Sometimes we just try to show the woman that the request is really difficult to fulfill. Sometimes this is enough to leave us alone.

How to recognize: again - due to the hype created. If the matter is trivial or terribly responsible, it is easier for a man to cope with it so that you gasp in admiration at the result. We actively share only tedious work.

How to fight: you need to split the infinite into the infinitesimal. That is, in turn, involve a man in the affairs that he entrusts to you. Is he asking you to help him with the tiles? Okay, let’s go to the market together to buy tiles, and then you measure everything! Mix cement? Let you show me how it’s done, and then I’ll do it myself. No, show me... Yeah, I almost got it. And one more time?..

Instructions

To increase male potency and sexual desire, use the remedies that nature itself provides. That is, those foods and spices that are aphrodisiacs. You can also increase desire with the help of medications, including hormonal therapy. But any medicine has not only positive, but also negative properties (side effects).

Watch your man's diet. Since ancient times, it was noticed that men whose diet often included meat or fish were sexually more active than those who, for various reasons, were on a vegetarian “diet.” Indeed, some types of meat and fish (especially sea fish) are very rich in substances that promote increased testosterone production.

Don't forget about sweets. It is useful for men to consume honey, especially in the form of various mixtures. For example, with crushed walnut kernels. The ancients and Romans placed a premium on fresh herbs, especially parsley. Parsley is a strong aphrodisiac. Parsley can be consumed either as a separate dish or as an additive to other dishes, including honey-nut mixture. There will be much more benefit and effect.

Pamper yours with dark chocolate. It is good not only as a treat, but also as an aphrodisiac. After all, it contains cocoa bean powder, which has been used since ancient times by the peoples of some tropical countries.

Some exotic fruits are also aphrodisiacs, especially avocados. It contains a large amount of vitamin B6, which is absolutely necessary for the production of testosterone.

Don't forget about seasonings and spices. They are available to almost everyone because they are inexpensive and used in small quantities. Cinnamon, ginger, vanilla - this is not a complete list of spices that help strengthen male power and awaken desire.

You can also note black coffee. This drink has always been famous as a good aphrodisiac.

If you want to awaken desire without using any food products, consider a technique for seducing a man. For example, give a light erotic massage using aromatic oils.

A stormy night is guaranteed if you get a man in advance. For example, during the day you will write messages to him about your sexual fantasies. Rest assured, the man will not be late at work for a second on this day.

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How to awaken desire in a man

If you want to not only attract and interest a man for a while, but also stay in his life for a long time, rekindle his feelings, make him fall in love with you, you need to know and follow one rule called “bottom, heart, head.” And you need to follow it exactly in this sequence, then the result will exceed all expectations. The instructions may seem unusual, abstract, and sometimes even cynical, but many professional psychologists agree with it.

You will need

A man, his lower torso (groin), his heart and head.

Instructions

The first feeling that is born in relation to you is passion. Physical attraction is what drives him at the very beginning. The energy through which passion is born is, oddly enough, located in the groin. Sexual attraction initially drives actions and determines them in the first place. In principle, at this stage it is not difficult to ignite; almost everyone can do it. To do this, you need to look good, dress correctly (just not vulgarly - this, on the contrary, is repulsive), be able to attract the attention of men, and be a good lover.

When you have successfully dealt with this, move on to his heart. Here, turn on all your charm, femininity, and complaisance. Do things that can surprise, amaze, or interest him. Be kind, sympathetic, humane, take care of him, support and praise him. Just be sure to praise, men love it - they are so rarely given compliments, so they always remember them. This way you will win his heart. At this stage of the relationship, you say that the man has fallen in love with you.

Show your support. He should feel that you are always on his side. If he complains about someone, give him the feeling that you think he is right. Praise him, give him compliments, say good things about him to his relatives and friends. If someone criticizes him, immediately stop it by saying that you will figure it out together.

Show your weakness. Let your man know that you need his care and protection. Most males like to feel like they are protecting their beloved. Admire his ability to wash dishes, cook, or shine shoes. No matter how much he helps you, thank him and praise him, even if the result turns out to be far from what you wanted. The young man must fix in his mind that when he does something for you, he receives positive emotions in return.

Be an example. If you want a man to pay attention to you, give you gifts and make concessions, you will have to do the same at least periodically. Using your example, he will see what kind of attitude you want towards yourself, and on occasion he will not be able to reproach you: “But you don’t do that!”

Delight him. A guy will not fulfill the wishes of a girl who is causing him less and less interest. He should be delighted with you, and this can be achieved if you always look great, enjoy interesting hobbies, and demonstrate your charm and femininity.

Don't cause negative emotions. If you want to achieve something from your chosen one, then do not throw hysterics and scenes. Hint to your lover what action you expect from him. It is possible that you will have to directly tell him what you want. If a guy does not respond to your request or ignores it, be a little sad, be thoughtful, but do not make scandals. Most likely, your sad appearance will make him feel more guilty than your screams.

Make jealous. A young man must understand that if you wish, you can always find yourself another chosen one. The way he sees that you have fans who would like to take his place. If these are not observed in reality yet, then you can use harmless tricks. Ask a male friend to call you a couple of times in front of your boyfriend, posing as a secret admirer who wants to meet you. You can also order yourself a bouquet of flowers, which will also supposedly be from a mysterious admirer.

I want the guy to call and write first (SMS or in contact)

If you want a guy to show you attention on social networks, then make sure that your page really arouses interest. To do this, regularly post new information about yourself, write funny or philosophical posts, and add extraordinary pictures.

You should also not forget about the photo - perhaps this is most important. Post more often new pictures in which you look great. Forget about the same type of selfies - let your photos be taken in different locations - at the skating rink, in the park, in a cafe, on a walk, in the company of friends. This way, your page will always be interesting to visit. In addition, a young man will not have to look for a long time for a reason to write to you if you always have a lot of information in your profile that can be commented on.

Phone calls

Towards the end of the meeting, bring up some interesting topic with the man, and then say: “Okay, there’s almost no time, let’s discuss this later on the phone.” This way, you yourself will hint to the person that you will be waiting for his call.

If you usually communicated on a social network, then for some time you will have to disappear from the “world of virtuality”. Tell the young man in advance that you will not be able to log into VK or another social network for some period, adding: “If anything happens, call me.” Sometimes men can't decide to make the call themselves, so giving them the green light can be very important.

You can dial the guy’s number once and hang up after the first ring. After waiting for your chosen one to call you back, tell him that you accidentally dialed his number. As a result, you will probably start a conversation, after which it will be easier for the guy to call you next time.

SMS messages to mobile

At first, write him SMS yourself, and do it at approximately the same frequency. For example, every morning you can wish him a successful day and a good mood, or simply write something nice. After some period, abruptly break off this “tradition” - for sure, the chosen one will notice these changes and try to initiate contact himself.

How to make a guy kiss you and want you

I want a kiss from a guy, how to get it

If you want a guy to kiss you, then it is important to observe some nuances that at first glance may not seem particularly important to you.

Namely:

Before a meeting, do not use too bright lipstick - many guys in this case do not dare to kiss, for fear of getting dirty or ruining your makeup, on which you, apparently, have worked a lot. Opt for a clear gloss or lip balm with a subtle tint.
Although this is an obvious point, do not forget about fresh breath. Maintain impeccable oral hygiene, buy mint or fruit flavored chewing gum or menthol lozenges.
Find the right moment for a kiss. If you want a guy to take such a step, you should take care to create the appropriate conditions. When going on a date, do not choose noisy and crowded places - a secluded environment is more appropriate for the first kiss. If you are together in a noisy company, then ask the guy to accompany you so that you can be alone.

To make a guy want you, be a seductive little thing

First of all, men most often pay attention to a girl’s appearance, and if you want to arouse sexual interest in your chosen one, then you should look seductive. When thinking about what hairstyle to do before a date, give preference to loose hair, which, of course, should be well-groomed. Let your hair be perfectly smooth or flow down your back in voluminous curls.

It is also important to choose the right wardrobe. It is not necessary to opt for a vulgar dress in order for a man to want you - learn to understand things that will maximally emphasize your advantages and smooth out possible shortcomings.

If you reveal any part of the body, then the emphasis should be only on it. For example, when choosing a dress with a deep neckline, compensate for this revealing length to the knees. In turn, when wearing clothes that reveal your legs, make sure that the top is “closed”.

In addition to appearance, you can also seduce by behavior. You should look relaxed. Tense and closed postures can confuse the chosen one. Relaxation should be present in your entire appearance, manners, and conversation. It is better to maintain a slight mystery and periodically remain silent than to chat incessantly on unnecessary topics about problems at work and your friend’s family troubles.

Also, don't underestimate the importance of touch. Swipe along a man's cheek, his back or through his hair, touch your fingers. Of course, it is important to choose the most appropriate moment so that it does not look inappropriate.

Speak in a calm, slightly muffled voice, giving your dialogue more intimacy. This does not mean that you need to go to extremes and lower your tone almost to a whisper. Men love it when women laugh at their jokes, but let your laughter be melodic and quiet - it is not at all necessary to laugh so much that passers-by or cafe visitors turn around. From time to time, do not forget to give your chosen one a soft smile, look him in the eyes and, of course, flirt.

How to convince him to quit bad habits

A person who is addicted to smoking, drinking alcohol and gambling often harms not only himself, but also those close to him.

Make a guy quit smoking

Arm yourself with simple and understandable articles about how smoking harms the health of your boyfriend and the people around him. As a rule, everyone knows that this habit is harmful, but rarely does anyone go into the smallest details. Tell the young man what prospects await him in a few years. If you are planning to have children, then tell your man that his smoking may cause problems for the unborn child. There are many visual articles on this subject on the Internet.

Let your lover know that you do not like the smell that comes from him after smoking. Point out to him that cigarettes are causing his teeth to darken. Avoid kissing if the man has just smoked a cigarette. Tell him more often that he is good to everyone, “if only he didn’t smoke yet...”.

Pay the smoker's attention to how much his harmful hobby costs him - surely, for the same money, having given up smoking for a year, he could buy the desired thing for which he always felt sorry for the financial resources.

What to do to get a man to eliminate alcohol from his life

If you understand that a person is clearly abusing alcohol, then it makes sense to convince him to seek medical help. Most likely, at first the man will be hostile to such a proposal, so he will have to look for other ways to influence him.

Expand his range of interests. Offer to go on a hike or go on an exciting trip where you can control his cravings. Tell him that when he is intoxicated, he behaves unbearably - you love him very much, but it is unpleasant for you to be with him when he drinks.

Most likely, he drinks not himself, but with certain people. Try to find a way to end his relationship with these individuals.

If he is in the initial stages of alcoholism, then ultimatums may still have an effect on him. Firmly tell him that you cannot live with a person who is unable to overcome his addiction.

Gambling addiction - my boyfriend's addiction, how to deal with it

Does the guy spend almost all his free time playing computer games? If this started recently, then ultimatums may affect him, but if he has been passionate about this kind of pastime for a long time, and ultimatums do not bother him, then he will have to behave differently.

It is necessary to occupy his free time with something else. You can go on an exciting tour where he will not have the opportunity to sit in front of the computer. Involve his friends - go to some interesting events together, go on trips, etc.

You can also invite the guy to sign up for a gym or go there together, noting that an overly persistent fan is trying to get to know you there.

How to hint to him that it’s time to lose weight and exercise

You don’t have to immediately hint at his excess weight, but use a trick. If you live together, tell your boyfriend that for health reasons you will have to eat healthy for a while. Tell your chosen one that such changes are not easy for you, and you need his support. Accordingly, you two will have to follow some kind of diet for a while. You can do the same with the gym - say that you are going to play sports, but you are bored and want him to keep you company.

If you know that your boyfriend might be interested in wrestling classes, then give him a subscription to attend them. Of course, this will not help much in losing weight, but it will begin to instill in the young man a craving for sports. Plus, he'll likely see a lot of better-conditioned guys in training that he'll want to look up to.

You can use this trick. Buy him a T-shirt in the size he wore a while ago. When you discover that an item is small, embarrassedly say that for some reason you were sure that this was its size. If previously a young man did not pay attention to his excess weight, now he will have a reason to think about it.

What to do to make a guy show love

So that a man gets bored and can confess his feelings

So that a man misses you, make sure that your communication always takes place on a positive note. These meetings should be like a breath of fresh air for him. On dates, be interested in his affairs, joke, laugh at his witticisms, be charming and cheerful. Talk enthusiastically about your affairs and listen with interest to what he tells you. If a person enjoys being in your company, then, of course, he will miss you.

Think about whether you are spending too much time together. If you see each other almost every day, then the guy simply does not have time to truly miss you.

Some men cannot admit their feelings, doubting their reciprocity. To give your chosen one confidence, show him that you like him too. To do this, take an interest in his affairs, flirt with him, ask him for advice.

To run after you and fall in love

In general, they run after those who at least periodically try to “run away.” Girls who are too predictable and always ready to date gradually become uninteresting to their lovers.

A guy will certainly fall in love with you if you always look great, there are no complaints or dissatisfaction on your lips, and you yourself are passionate about some entertaining hobby. When a young man calls you, you should not immediately pick up the phone and try to stretch out the conversation as much as possible. Periodically miss his calls, and then tell him that you were busy and did not hear the ringtone. Of course, you need to mention that you were distracted by some very interesting activity - dancing, a painting lesson, classes with a coach at a sports club, etc.

Make a man apologize after a quarrel

1) If a man does not apologize, then most likely he does not feel fully guilty. He must understand what exactly offended you. Perhaps you look at the same situations differently, and what seems offensive to you is completely normal for him. Think carefully about whether the man is really to blame for something, or whether you are simply overly touchy. If we are still talking about the first option, then calmly talk with your lover, trying to convey to him your own point of view.

2) Do not express aggression or obvious dissatisfaction - such behavior will most likely only push the man away. It’s better to show your chosen one that some of his actions upset and saddened you. Don't show anger or resentment - he will be much more impressed if you look depressed and sad. And, of course, there is no need to cry and throw a tantrum - “invisibly” wiping away tears will be more effective.

3) Don't start taking revenge on him after a quarrel. Let him see that you are offended, but despite this, he remains an important and dear person to you. Continue, as before, to take care of him and prepare food.

4) If you have the opportunity to talk with his friend, mother or someone from his close circle (no need to call yourself), then let the interlocutor know that you are very sad, without specifying what caused the sadness. Surely, this person will ask your husband what happened to your mood.

How to influence him so that he wants to give gifts and flowers

Remember which people you like to give gifts to, and which people you don’t. When you see that a person is delighted by every little thing you give, then you subconsciously want to please this person again. Noticing that a person indifferently turned your gift in his hands and soon forgot about it, you will clearly consider him ungrateful, and perhaps even be offended.

1) The young man experiences similar sensations. Be happy about every little thing he gives you. Even if you wanted to receive a completely different thing for your birthday or March 8, be able to hide your disappointment. If you radiate joy when receiving gifts from your lover, he will remember this emotion and subconsciously want to see it again. A young man gives you some clothes or jewelry - be sure to try this thing on, periodically wear it on dates with your lover.

2) Sometimes in conversations with your loved one, mention that you dream of buying some thing, specifying that you will do this when you receive a salary, find yourself in the area of that store, etc. Let the guy know that you really want something, but for some reason you can’t afford it yet. It is possible that he himself will want to give you such a gift.

3) You can also show by example the importance of gifts and introduce such a tradition into your relationship. Give him surprises regularly - give him the necessary things and souvenirs for the holidays and for no special reason.

4) If you want to receive flowers as a gift more often, post photos of beautiful bouquets on social networks, admiring their beauty. Of course, you shouldn’t join a group dedicated specifically to flowers. Similar pictures are often found in public pages with quotes and many others.

Also, in order not to make the guy jealous and at the same time show your attitude towards flowers, meet him with a cute bouquet in your hands. Say that before the date you saw a friend who congratulated you on some important event (a salary increase, name day, completion of renovations, etc.). Throughout the date, periodically cast an admiring glance at your bouquet, handle it with care, and sometimes smell the flowers. Of course, this shouldn’t look theatrical or annoying - the guy will quickly notice how positively your friend’s gift affected you.

How to achieve the desired intimate caresses

Of course, the easiest way to initiate a frank conversation is to choose the most appropriate time for this. Organize a romantic dinner and bring up the topic of sex over a glass of wine. In a confidential tone, ask your chosen one if he would like to somehow diversify your intimate life, and what kind of experiments he would like. After his answer, you will also have the opportunity to voice your own desires.

Perhaps you are hesitant to tell a young man what exactly you want from him in bed, then you need to show it. When he starts moving his hands or kisses closer to the “needed” area of the body, start breathing more often and demonstrating in every possible way that you really like his actions.

You can invite the young man to watch some erotic film. When you see a scene that you would like to repeat with your lover, tell him that you found this moment in the plot very exciting and it would be nice to “recreate” it someday.

What to do to get a man to propose

You have long been ripe for marriage, but your chosen one is in no hurry to make you his wife? You can “push” him to this step.

Family films. Start with the little things. Choose movies to watch together that show happy family relationships. You can also opt for films where a guy proposes to a girl - as a rule, these scenes are very sweet and put you in the right mood.

Thrift. A man should see that you are ready for family life. It is important for many young guys that their beloved can cook deliciously and keep order in the house. By coming to visit you and seeing exactly how you live, he can roughly imagine what his life will be like in marriage. More often treat your boyfriend with delicacies you have prepared yourself, and periodically mention in conversations that you are going to start doing household chores.

Talking about the future. Periodically initiate conversations with your boyfriend about how he sees his future in a year, in five years. Based on his answers, you can determine what role in this future he assigns specifically to you and whether he is going to get married.

Ultimatum. If your relationship is already several years old, and your lover does not heed your hints, then it makes sense to bring him into a direct conversation. Tell the man that you understand that you want to be his wife and live a family life with him, and are already a little tired of the uncertainty and want clarity on this issue. However, when initiating such a conversation, be prepared for the man to admit that he is not in the mood for marriage. Then you will have to either agree to his terms or break off the relationship. If you're not ready for the second option, it might make sense to wait a little longer.

How to make a young man jealous

Do you feel like your lover doesn’t value you at all and isn’t afraid of losing you? Try to make him jealous in this situation, which won’t be difficult at all. How to do it? In a conversation with your lover, mention your classmate, colleague or co-worker - praise him, talk about him with delight.

Your enthusiasm will clearly confuse the young man and make him nervous:

When going to meet friends in a cafe, dress as impressively as possible - tight-fitting outfits, loose hair, bright makeup. Show that you are in a good mood and are looking forward to a wonderful evening. This way you can give your boyfriend something to worry about too.
Periodically tell your lover that someone wanted to meet you on the street or in a cafe, but you refused.
Send yourself a bouquet to work or home, making it look like an unknown admirer is interested in you.
Spend more time on social networks than usual.

How to make a guy leave a girl

Do you really like some young man, but he is already in a relationship with another girl? You can try to “recapture” the guy from your rival. However, keep in mind that it is better not to get involved in this if the couple has been living together for a long period or is preparing for a wedding.

If your chosen one has only recently entered into a relationship, and you are convinced that you are much more suitable for him than your current chosen one, then first try to make friends with him. Find out more about his girlfriend and what he likes in girls in general. Having studied your opponent, identify her weaknesses and try to play in contrast - show the guy your superiority where she loses.

Try to become a true friend to him, an integral part of his life. Be interested in his hobbies, try to support him in everything, do not openly turn him against his beloved, but on the contrary, try to give “wise” advice when they are in a quarrel. Also, don’t forget that guys “love with their eyes,” so pay special attention to your appearance.

What to do to make a man think about you even from a distance

If you are constantly in touch with him, then it makes sense to sometimes neglect this rule. For example, you agreed to write or call later in the evening. Do not log into VK at this time, but at night write that there were problems with the Internet or that you were very tired after work and dozed off. Of course, such disappearances should not be abused, because it will look suspicious.

Also, don't forget that most guys are visual. Therefore, periodically send him your new photos in which you look most impressive.

How to Hint a Guy to Ask You Out on a Date

Many girls, having started communicating with guys they like, for example, on social networks, sometimes note that the correspondence ultimately leads to nothing - young men do not invite them on dates and remain in the status of “virtual friends.” Why is this happening?

Firstly, the guy may decide that you are quite happy with this state of affairs, and you are of little interest in him as a potential boyfriend. To dissuade your interlocutor from this, flirt with him more often, show interest in his affairs, mood, and give compliments.

Having established a fairly close contact by correspondence, mention that a film that you have long wanted to see is expected to premiere in cinemas soon. If the young man does not catch your hint, then you, seeing his general interest, may well take the first step by simply writing “Will you join me?” Surely, even if he can’t go to the cinema, he will offer you an interesting alternative. If this does not happen, then, unfortunately, he is unlikely to crave real meetings with you.